Congress Hall — 1816 grand hotel ('America's First Seaside Resort'), restored Victorian boutique, the Blue Pig Tavern in the lobby. Day-one Cape May Bird Observatory (spring + fall migrations are the marquee, 400+ species pass through), Cape May Lighthouse (1859, climb to the top for the view). Day two: dolphin-watch boat from the harbor, dinner at the Ebbitt Room (chef-driven New American). Day three: a final morning at Sunset Beach (the SS Atlantus shipwreck visible offshore). Atlantic City (ACY) is 45 minutes north; Philadelphia (PHL) is 90 minutes.
Five quick questions, then we build the full itinerary — lodging, daily schedule, dining, bars, the group-chat message — and drop you into a Trip Room you can share with the bridesmaids.